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ANARCHY!!!! Relationship anarchy, that is.  But what does that mean?  Is that total chaos in your love life?  Is it total freedom? 

The relationship anarchy movement first started in 2004, but despite being around for a while, not a lot of people know what it actually is.  We fill you on on relationship anarchy, and how you can use relationship anarchist principles to have a much happier and more open relationship landscape.

Other talking points:
-- Pleasuring a woman outside the usual methods.
-- Anatomical barriers to oral sex

Check out our sponsor, AdamAndEve.com, and use code MULTI at checkout to get 10 free gifts and support our show.

Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.

Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand.

Please send us your feedback and questions to info@multiamory.com, tweet to us @multiamory, check out our facebook page, or visit our website multiamory.com We love to hear from our listeners and we reply individually to every message.

Direct download: 40_-_Relationship_Anarchy.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 11:30am PDT
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Moving in with a romantic partner (or multiple romantic partners) is a huge milestone.  Are you sure you're ready for it?  What kind of environment do both of you want?  If you're non-monogamous, how will you handle scheduling sleepovers with others? 

All of your hosts have chosen to cohabit with romantic partners, both in monogamous and polyamorous relationships, and our experiences run the gamut from being amazing to being a total nightmare. We have condensed our own experiences and the wisdom of others into 10 things to keep in mind when getting ready to share a living space with your paramour. 

Other talking points:
-- How to keep your wife warm when you want to get it on but it's freezing out.

Check out our sponsor, AdamAndEve.com, and use code MULTI at checkout to get 10 free gifts and support our show.

Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.

Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand.

Please send us your feedback and questions to info@multiamory.com, tweet to us @multiamory, check out our facebook page, or visit our website multiamory.com We love to hear from our listeners and we reply individually to every message.

 

Direct download: 39_-_Cohabitation.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 11:30am PDT
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The love of your life is moving to the other side of the globe...what do you do??

2/3rds of the Multiamory Crew are navigating long-distance relationships, and we wanted to get to the bottom of what works and what doesn't.  We discuss some interesting points made by Reddit users on what LDRs can look like in a poly context.  We also offer 3 great tips to ensure that your LDR will be healthy.

Other explorations:
--Why can't all women look like porn stars?
--Can sushi have viagra-like effects?

Check out our sponsor, AdamAndEve.com, and use code MULTI at checkout to get 10 free gifts and support our show.

Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.

Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand.

Please send us your feedback and questions to info@multiamory.com, tweet to us @multiamory, check out our facebook page, or visit our website multiamory.com We love to hear from our listeners and we reply individually to every message.

Direct download: 38_-_Long_Distance_Relationships.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 11:30am PDT
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This week we're talkin' about relationship baggage--those thoughts, feelings, habits, reactions, or trauma that you carry over from one relationship into another.  Within a monogamous context, this usually means there's a processing period after a breakup where ideally you can heal and carry as little baggage as possible into the next relationship.  In a poly context, this can happen with concurrent relationships!  We discuss how to prevent problems in some relationships from bleeding into others, as well as learning how to adjust communication styles between partners.

Check out our sponsor, AdamAndEve.com, and use code MULTI at checkout to get 10 free gifts and support our show.

Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.

Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand.

Please send us your feedback and questions to info@multiamory.com, tweet to us @multiamory, check out our facebook page, or visit our website multiamory.com We love to hear from our listeners and we reply individually to every message.

Direct download: 37_-_Baggage_Claim.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 11:30am PDT
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Multiamory welcomes back our good friend Erik Nelson to help us discuss the excitements and challenges of maneuvering first dates within the context of Polyamory.  In this episode we encounter personal first date experiences, first date foibles, the do's and don'ts of successful first dates, cheap and fun first date ideas, and when the appropriate time is to discuss your polyamorous lifestyle on your first date.  We also provide some helpful tips for dealing with the barrage of questions you will inevitably get about polyamory on a first date, and how to tackle the glow of a great first date in a respectful manner around your current partners.  

Check out our sponsor, AdamAndEve.com, and use code MULTI at checkout to get 10 free gifts and support our show.

Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.

Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand.

Please send us your feedback and questions to info@multiamory.com, tweet to us @multiamory, check out our facebook page, or visit our website multiamory.com We love to hear from our listeners and we reply individually to every message.

Direct download: 35_-_First_Dates.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 12:00pm PDT
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We are super excited to be interviewing Gracie X.  Gracie is a polyamorous author, director, actress, and mom of two kids.  She regularly contributes to The Huffington Post, and her new book Wide Open: My Adventures in Polyamory, Open Marriage, and Loving On My Own Terms just went on sale! We have a billion questions for her about being parent while also being poly.  Some of the things we cover include:

-- How much to communicate to your kids
-- Choosing whether or not to introduce new partners to your kids
-- Different poly family makeups
-- The benefits of communal living
-- Dealing with negative reactions from others, including her own personal experience dealing with a legal custody battle
-- Her one piece of advice for people who are interested both in being poly and in being parents!

You can find out more about Gracie and purchase her book on her website GracieX.com.

Check out our sponsor, AdamAndEve.com, and use code MULTI at checkout to get 10 free gifts and support our show.

Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.

Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand.

Please send us your feedback and questions to info@multiamory.com, tweet to us @multiamory, check out our facebook page, or visit our website multiamory.com We love to hear from our listeners and we reply individually to every message.

Direct download: 34_-_Poly_with_Kids_v2.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 12:00pm PDT
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It's Multiamory's very first intercontinental episode!  Dedeker joins in from across the world and shares with us the ins and outs of dating and culture in Greece.  We also dig in to the complexities surrounding the word "slut."  How do different people use the word?  Is it still derogatory, or has it been successfully reclaimed as a term of empowerment?

Our discussion was inspired by This Article that was sent to us by our fan Krystee!

Check out our sponsor, AdamAndEve.com, and use code MULTI at checkout to get 10 free gifts and support our show.

Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.

Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand.

Please send us your feedback and questions to info@multiamory.com, tweet to us @multiamory, check out our facebook page, or visit our website multiamory.com We love to hear from our listeners and we reply individually to every message.

Direct download: 33_-_50_Shades_of_Slut_v3.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 9:00am PDT
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Multiamory is officially 1 year old!  We celebrate the momentous occasion with a recap on our hit list of episodes, our humble beginnings, how our relationships have changed, what we see for the future, and crack into the quite precious Multiamory Treasure Trove of Wisdom(tm)! 

We also discuss statistics on religious preferences and acceptance of polyamory, traditional methods of artificial insemination, and "beauty privilege" in the media.

Check out our sponsor, AdamAndEve.com, and use code MULTI at checkout to get 10 free gifts and support our show.

Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.

Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand.

Please send us your feedback and questions to info@multiamory.com, tweet to us @multiamory, check out our facebook page, or visit our website multiamory.com We love to hear from our listeners and we reply individually to every message.

Direct download: 32_-_One_Year_Anniversary.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 12:00pm PDT
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Let's talk about sex, baby

Let's talk about you and me

Let's talk all the good things and the bad things that may be...

When you talk about sex with your partners!

How do you talk to your partner about the sex you're having with other people?  How much should you share and how much should be left to be mysterious?  This isn't a conversation that many people are already comfortable with, so we dig in to the reasons for hesitation as well as strategies for being able to communicate about your sex life clearly and confidently.  

Check out our sponsor, AdamAndEve.com, and use code MULTI at checkout to get 10 free gifts and support our show.

Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.

Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand.

 

Please send us your feedback and questions to info@multiamory.com, tweet to us @multiamory, check out our facebook page, or visit our website multiamory.com We love to hear from our listeners and we reply individually to every message.

Direct download: 31_-_Lets_Talk_About_Sex.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 11:30am PDT
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We are celebrating many exciting things here at Multiamory -- including Dedeker signing with a literary agency, and our twitter account how having over 200 followers!  Jase and Dedeker debrief on their experience going to the Polyglamorous meet-up and party for under 35 poly people.  We cover discussions about hierarchy, tantra, and the poly community at large.

Check out our sponsor, AdamAndEve.com, and use code MULTI at checkout to get 10 free gifts and support our show.

Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.

Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand.

Please send us your feedback and questions to info@multiamory.com, tweet to us @multiamory, check out our facebook page, or visit our website multiamory.com We love to hear from our listeners and we reply individually to every message

Direct download: 30_-_Polyglamorous.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 11:30am PDT
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