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This week we're talkin' about relationship baggage--those thoughts, feelings, habits, reactions, or trauma that you carry over from one relationship into another.  Within a monogamous context, this usually means there's a processing period after a breakup where ideally you can heal and carry as little baggage as possible into the next relationship.  In a poly context, this can happen with concurrent relationships!  We discuss how to prevent problems in some relationships from bleeding into others, as well as learning how to adjust communication styles between partners.

Check out our sponsor, AdamAndEve.com, and use code MULTI at checkout to get 10 free gifts and support our show.

Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.

Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand.

Please send us your feedback and questions to info@multiamory.com, tweet to us @multiamory, check out our facebook page, or visit our website multiamory.com We love to hear from our listeners and we reply individually to every message.

Direct download: 37_-_Baggage_Claim.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 11:30am PDT
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Multiamory is very excited to welcome author and blogger Saul of Hearts onto the podcast!  Saul writes about sexuality, relationships, communal living, the sharing economy, and many other topics.  In this interview, we pick Saul's brain on pansexuality, sexual exploration between straight men, stepping off of the relationship escalator, and more.  He also gives his one piece of advice for anyone interested in polyamory.

You can read more of Saul's writing at his website www.SaulofHearts.com.

Jase and Dedeker also hatch a master plan to get into a quad relationship with Tom Hanks and Carly Rae Jepsen and then retiring. 

Check out our sponsor, AdamAndEve.com, and use code MULTI at checkout to get 10 free gifts and support our show.

Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.

Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand.

Please send us your feedback and questions to info@multiamory.com, tweet to us @multiamory, check out our facebook page, or visit our website multiamory.com We love to hear from our listeners and we reply individually to every message.

Direct download: 36_-_Saul_of_Hearts.mp3
Category:Relationships -- posted at: 11:30am PDT
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Multiamory welcomes back our good friend Erik Nelson to help us discuss the excitements and challenges of maneuvering first dates within the context of Polyamory.  In this episode we encounter personal first date experiences, first date foibles, the do's and don'ts of successful first dates, cheap and fun first date ideas, and when the appropriate time is to discuss your polyamorous lifestyle on your first date.  We also provide some helpful tips for dealing with the barrage of questions you will inevitably get about polyamory on a first date, and how to tackle the glow of a great first date in a respectful manner around your current partners.  

Check out our sponsor, AdamAndEve.com, and use code MULTI at checkout to get 10 free gifts and support our show.

Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.

Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand.

Please send us your feedback and questions to info@multiamory.com, tweet to us @multiamory, check out our facebook page, or visit our website multiamory.com We love to hear from our listeners and we reply individually to every message.

Direct download: 35_-_First_Dates.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 12:00pm PDT
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We are super excited to be interviewing Gracie X.  Gracie is a polyamorous author, director, actress, and mom of two kids.  She regularly contributes to The Huffington Post, and her new book Wide Open: My Adventures in Polyamory, Open Marriage, and Loving On My Own Terms just went on sale! We have a billion questions for her about being parent while also being poly.  Some of the things we cover include:

-- How much to communicate to your kids
-- Choosing whether or not to introduce new partners to your kids
-- Different poly family makeups
-- The benefits of communal living
-- Dealing with negative reactions from others, including her own personal experience dealing with a legal custody battle
-- Her one piece of advice for people who are interested both in being poly and in being parents!

You can find out more about Gracie and purchase her book on her website GracieX.com.

Check out our sponsor, AdamAndEve.com, and use code MULTI at checkout to get 10 free gifts and support our show.

Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.

Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand.

Please send us your feedback and questions to info@multiamory.com, tweet to us @multiamory, check out our facebook page, or visit our website multiamory.com We love to hear from our listeners and we reply individually to every message.

Direct download: 34_-_Poly_with_Kids_v2.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 12:00pm PDT
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It's Multiamory's very first intercontinental episode!  Dedeker joins in from across the world and shares with us the ins and outs of dating and culture in Greece.  We also dig in to the complexities surrounding the word "slut."  How do different people use the word?  Is it still derogatory, or has it been successfully reclaimed as a term of empowerment?

Our discussion was inspired by This Article that was sent to us by our fan Krystee!

Check out our sponsor, AdamAndEve.com, and use code MULTI at checkout to get 10 free gifts and support our show.

Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.

Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand.

Please send us your feedback and questions to info@multiamory.com, tweet to us @multiamory, check out our facebook page, or visit our website multiamory.com We love to hear from our listeners and we reply individually to every message.

Direct download: 33_-_50_Shades_of_Slut_v3.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 9:00am PDT
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Multiamory is officially 1 year old!  We celebrate the momentous occasion with a recap on our hit list of episodes, our humble beginnings, how our relationships have changed, what we see for the future, and crack into the quite precious Multiamory Treasure Trove of Wisdom(tm)! 

We also discuss statistics on religious preferences and acceptance of polyamory, traditional methods of artificial insemination, and "beauty privilege" in the media.

Check out our sponsor, AdamAndEve.com, and use code MULTI at checkout to get 10 free gifts and support our show.

Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.

Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand.

Please send us your feedback and questions to info@multiamory.com, tweet to us @multiamory, check out our facebook page, or visit our website multiamory.com We love to hear from our listeners and we reply individually to every message.

Direct download: 32_-_One_Year_Anniversary.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 12:00pm PDT
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Let's talk about sex, baby

Let's talk about you and me

Let's talk all the good things and the bad things that may be...

When you talk about sex with your partners!

How do you talk to your partner about the sex you're having with other people?  How much should you share and how much should be left to be mysterious?  This isn't a conversation that many people are already comfortable with, so we dig in to the reasons for hesitation as well as strategies for being able to communicate about your sex life clearly and confidently.  

Check out our sponsor, AdamAndEve.com, and use code MULTI at checkout to get 10 free gifts and support our show.

Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.

Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand.

 

Please send us your feedback and questions to info@multiamory.com, tweet to us @multiamory, check out our facebook page, or visit our website multiamory.com We love to hear from our listeners and we reply individually to every message.

Direct download: 31_-_Lets_Talk_About_Sex.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 11:30am PDT
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We are celebrating many exciting things here at Multiamory -- including Dedeker signing with a literary agency, and our twitter account how having over 200 followers!  Jase and Dedeker debrief on their experience going to the Polyglamorous meet-up and party for under 35 poly people.  We cover discussions about hierarchy, tantra, and the poly community at large.

Check out our sponsor, AdamAndEve.com, and use code MULTI at checkout to get 10 free gifts and support our show.

Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.

Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand.

Please send us your feedback and questions to info@multiamory.com, tweet to us @multiamory, check out our facebook page, or visit our website multiamory.com We love to hear from our listeners and we reply individually to every message

Direct download: 30_-_Polyglamorous.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 11:30am PDT
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This episode is a grab bag!  We throw our normal show format to the wind, and bring you a variety of thrilling discussions.  We dig in to dog-walker porn, statistics about marriage, the prevalence (or complete lack) of bisexual women on OkCupid, and try to figure out what the hell "legalized cheating" means.

Check out our sponsor, AdamAndEve.com, and use code MULTI at checkout to get 10 free gifts and support our show.

Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.

Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand.

Please send us your feedback and questions to info@multiamory.com, tweet to us @multiamory, check out our facebook page, or visit our website multiamory.com We love to hear from our listeners and we reply individually to every message.

Direct download: 29_-_Porn_Statistics_and_Legalized.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 11:30am PDT
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The media is buzzing about Caitlyn Jenner, bringing much more visibility and public discussion to transgender issues.  We at Multiamory.com have some transgender friends, but none of us really had any personal insight into what its like to be transgender in the 21st century.  Fortunately, gender therapist Dara Hoffman-Fox came to the rescue!  

Dara is a therapist based in Colorado Springs who specializes in transgender clients, and she was kind enough to come on the podcast to answer all of our questions!   You can find more information about her services and her new book series on gender identity at her website, darahoffmanfox.com

Check out our sponsor, AdamAndEve.com, and use code MULTI at checkout to get 10 free gifts and support our show.

Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.

Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand.

Please send us your feedback and questions to info@multiamory.com, tweet to us @multiamory, check out our facebook page, or visit our website multiamory.com We love to hear from our listeners and we reply individually to every message.

 
Direct download: 28_-_Transgender.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 11:30am PDT
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